I'm new to this board, so forgive me if I sound stupid.My boyfriend of 1 yr STILL has not proposed. We have talked about getting married, but we never talk about rings or the romantic way in which he will ask me to be his wife. We do not live together.He is looking for a house and wants my input, so I'm assuming it will be for all 3 of us. But I REALLY, REALLY want a ring. I want it before the end of 2009! Preferrably before the holidays so I can show it off to my cousins and make them jealous.How do I get him to propose to me in a very romantic way? I've waited ALL my LIFE for this moment and I want it to happen and be VERY romantic. You know, down on one knee in front of people at a restaurant or somewhere public. Our song playing in the background, people cheering for us, etc.Is it selfish of me to want a ring and a romantic proposal instead of him buying a house? I feel like our love is more important than a house.Thank you.