BF and I were introduced through mutual friends of ours. His best friend happened to be dating one of my close friends and they hooked us up. Ever since BF and I started dating it felt like they were always trying to compare our relationship to theirs, it felt like it was turning into a competion about whose relationship was better. BF's best friend even told him that he should make a list of rules for me and that I didn't love him because I didn't move to be closer to BF because I decided to finish school first. Yes, they are a verrry mature couple.
Needless to say my close friend and I had a huge falling out after her now husband called me up one night and called me a bitch and told me I was a bad friend for inviting her out to a party with a bunch of friends of ours, and she said nothing. (He later aplologized to me and to BF for all of the things that he had said and done and vice versa) Well, this was about two-ish years ago. BF and his friend have tried to stay close but because of all of the stuff that he said to me NF decided it was best to not be friends and also because of the resentment and anger between her and I it was almost impossible for them to be friends.
I finally got sick of all of the petty drama and snide comments she would make and decided to apologizeto her for the past and all of the stuff that happened between us. Not because I wanted her and I to be friends again, I doubt that will ever happen, but because BF and his friend have been able to repair their friendship and are now getting close again. We are now civil and although we don't talk often when we do it's a bit awkward but mostly it's fine. But, I still feel like there is animosity between her and I. She will make these snide comments that I just feel like are directed towards me. It's starting to bug me.
Am I just being overdramatic? I don't want to say anything to her because she is very dramatic and it will just start more problems and I don't want BF and his friend to have to stop being friends again because she is very controlling of her now husband and will bug him about it constantly.
Please just talk me down and tell me I am being dumb and need to get over it. Flame away ladies, I need it.