I was planning on getting married outside the US in a Catholic ceremony so I began researching the marriage laws regarding this situation (thanks to Jeana for the tip!). The country we are going to requires proof of a civil wedding at least 30 days prior to the religious ceremony. I feel weird about that but apparently that's the typical procedure for many other countries.
Does anyone have any idea whether the religious ceremony would be a wedding or a convalidation? Is there a difference in the ceremonies? According to one website, "a convalidation is not the time for a big church wedding with bridesmaids".
I've tried looking everywhere - county/state laws, US laws, archdiocese rules- but I can't find an answer. Any suggestions on where else I should look?