My best friend since the sandbox has found a guy we all believe to be the one for her. I have been so happy for her. But today we talked and she told me that she had her whole wedding planned out and was finishing up on some of the decorations.... the only problem... she isn't engaged... They have only been together a couple months and she told me he says she's rushing and he isn't ready. I wanted to blurt out whoa! slow down! but I don't know what to say to her since she seems so happy and she has never been so happy and excited about anything. They are so great together and I don't want her to lose him because I know how much he means to her but I'm afraid if she keeps up he will bolt and then she will be a mess with a lot of money wasted and decorations left for something that never happened. I don't want her to think I'm just raining on her parade I just think since she is in my wedding she caught the wedding bug and may sabotage her own relationship with a good man. any advice? at a loss for words...