Okay...so, I have a BM question..
I already have 6 BM..my best friend, sister, FSIL, and 3 other really good friends that I've known forever. I wouldn't ever even think to take one of them out or replace them with another. I asked each one of them shortly after we got engaged, as I've known forever that I'd want each of them standing next to me on the big day. However, I have another friend that I have recently gotten really, really close to. I've known this girl, K, for almost a year, but in the last couple of months we've gotten really, really close. I can also see K becoming a lifelong friend. I've been contemplating for some time now about asking her to be a BM. However, I just don't want her to feel like she's a sloppy second or anything of the sort since I'm asking her a few months after I asked the others. It's not like I'd be replacing another girl, I just want to add her to the original 6. So, my question is..what do you guys think? Do you think she'd feel bad? Is it a good/bad idea? Any thoughts would be appreciated and I figured the CC girls would be blunt and honest.
So, thoughts?
Before anyone says, "That's why you wait to ask your BM," please understand that I felt it was perfect timing to ask each of my girls. I just wasn't expecting to become so close to another friend so quickly.
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