I dont know what to do. My Fiancee and I have already put a deposit on our wedding venoue and now my mom want us to get married where her and my dad got married. I didnt want to hurt her feelings so I told her we couldnt get out deposit back, but now she is so upset. She said for us to do what ever we want and now she is not talking to us. What do I do. I dont want to fight. Help.