I am offended and my FI is offended. His younger brother just had a baby today and non of the family was notified, however he was able to post it to facebook and let everyone else know before us. I found out by checking my facebook at lunch today and the baby had been around for two hours already.
They've been this way starting with their marriage, they kept it a secret and the bridal shower non of his family was invited. Then they kept the pregnancy news a secret and we found out through others and fb, then the baby shower his mother wasn't invited, now this. We haven't done anything to make them mad or upset with us.
Is a phone call before a fb post be too much to ask? We spoke to them about this befpre they found out the sex of the baby, they gave us that courtesy but just that once. I feel the most sorry for his mom since theyve been the most disrespectful to her.
I'm literally biting my tongue off to be nice to them but this has pushed me to my limit.