I need help sorting through who I should ask to be my maid of honor - or even if I should have a maid of honor!
I have 5 bridesmaids: 2 are my sisters, 1 is his sister and 2 are my friends. I've known both of my girl friends for 10 years. I get along well with both, but one of them is on the same page as me - likes the same things, wants the same things, does the same things. I had thought about asking her to be my maid of honor, but my mom pulled me aside and said that it is smarter to choose a sibling as they will still be there in another 10 years whereas I don't know if my girlfriend will still be my girlfriend in 2020. She suggested I choose one of my sisters to stand for me. And I don't mind that route, but neither sister is particularly close to me - in fact I just started spending more time with one of them since I started wedding planning. Prior to that we spoke only at family get togethers. It's not that I don't like them, but that I don't know them well.
Add to that the fact that I think my girlfriend might kill me if she has to give a speech....
As you can see my mind is a mess. I've been engaged for a year already and I have 6 months until the big day. I need to start making a decision here!
Advice?