I hope this is the right board for this kind of stuff, if not I apologize...
So for awhile I've been considering replacing my MOH (Maid of Honor) because she's just been really flaky in general, not just wedding stuff. Not communicating a whole lot not answering texts, always busy with other people etc. (She wasn't like this before she was made MOH)
Than I find out on xmas she moved out of state to Colorado. I had NO warning. She said and these are exact words: She tried to hang out with me before she left and I said well I had no idea she was moving out of the state! And her answer back was "I guess I didn't mention that did I? Oh well I suck at goodbyes."
And with her flakiness she isn't the type to drive/fly down here to help with stuff. And it's all good, she moved because she couldn't find a job here, but tell me!
So I really really want to replace her, but how do I tell her without hurting her feelings? There's more to it because since I made her my MOH she's just been absent. So even if she moved back I'm kind of just done worrying about having a MOH who isn't there for me.
So does anyone have any suggestions on how to word this to her? She's a really good friend but at the same time, a friend would tell me she was moving outa state so how close can we really be right? Any advice would be appreciated!