When I first got engaged, I was all about planning and now, as I've had to make downgrades & compromises on things that I don't want to compromise on...I'm really disinterested in the damn thing. I know it's still going to be a really nice event, but it's really removed from what I started out planning. I keep yes-ing my fiance on points that I'm unhappy with to avoid a fight & it feels like I'm planning someone else's day, not my own.
How do I motivate myself to get re-interested in planning?