I wanted to have my wedding party wear the Tom's bridal collection. However since these are a bit more expensive than standard flats that they probably would have picked out themselves I feel bad asking them to buy these. Would I be wrong in doing that? My FMIL seems irritated that she has had to buy her daughter (MOH) the dress which was very reasonably priced btw and has to pay for her hair and make up which again is a very reasonable price. I am not sure why my MOH isn't helping pay for these things but that is a seperate issue. FI and I are paying for the wedding and just can't afford to pay for these things for her on top of everything else. I'm not sure how to bring up this situation to my MOH and FMIL. Any ideas?.