people can be sooo rude
Some of the people that write in these boards simply astound me! Sometimes brides mention that they are young and that suddenly gives people permission to tell them they should wait a couple years before they get married! This behavior shocks me. Why don't you should give the bride advice on what she asked for? Not on something that is obviously none of your business. Just because some people want time to live their life and "find themself", it is not how all people want to live their lives.I myself am a young bride and this behavior sickens me. I refuse to believe that just because I am younger than a lot of people who get married my marriage won't work out. Marriage is about love and commitment, and the decision to get married is between the two people making that commitment.