About a month ago I attended a wedding for a family friend, I never expected the invite and they clearly invited too many people for their budget because the food consisted of ham and cheese sandwiches like it was a graduation party. IMO they should have had a MUCH smaller guest list but whatever, everyone has different priorities. We heard crazy stories about the wedding planning (that was done in 2 weeks) including aunts and uncles not getting an invite because the bride to be didn't know half of the grooms family yet, and my invite did not include a +1, even though they know I'm engaged.
Anyway, yesterday I received a card from them in the mail, open it and it's a typed-out postcard size note that includes a quote by Norah Ephron and "thank you for attending our big day with us, it meant so much to have you there. Sincerely, Bride and Groom."
Since when did it become okay to type thank you cards and send them out en masse without personalization?