I think the wedding planning is finally getting to me and Fi is starting to irritate me. I understand that things are crazy busy right now, he's taking a class, working every day, I'm working as much OT as possible while taking care of everythng wedding related. Normally, we have a fantastic relationship and I certainly don't doubt that he is the one for me. The problem?
He barely has time to talk to me at the end of the day because he's studying or working. Fine, I get that. He all but bites my head off saying he has no free time when I ask him to help address wedding invitations or go order the cake with me. Understandable, wedding planning isn't really fun for guys. I have to all but drag him to the store for his vest and ring, and heaven forbid I suggest we see a movie. And yet...
His friends are having a party on Sunday, and he's more than willing to take half a day off to attend. Then last night best man calls and convinces him to have a bachelor party. Sure, now he can suddenly take a weekend off for that. Now, we had previously agreed no parties, but if we did have one it would be joint so our entire wedding party could attend. Now, they just want to go fishing and best man thinks I'm joking when I say there won't be a wedding if strippers are present (I trust my FI, but not his friends and certainly not naked women who will do nearly anything for an extra buck).
It's not so much the party itself that bothers me, but the time thing. I want to feel important too! He can't take me to the movies for 2 hours, but he can drive an hour and a half for a damn fishing trip all weekend? WTF? Nothing I can do, I guess, except talk to him and find out why he has time for everyone else and not me. Boys really suck sometimes.