Not sure if you'll ever see this, but this is the only place I really feel safe posting (because I love the 8/12 girls!)
Have you ever considered having a board for young brides? A lot of young brides are on TK, which I knew even before the recent post on Chit Chat. I know a lot of younger brides, including myself, are hesitant to post anything age-related on the boards because we get less-than-helpful responses, often with direct regard to age.
I personally would love a place to go and discuss issues I'm having at my age, that other Knotties who are older might flame me for. Which has happened to me. A few times actually.
Okay, well, just a suggestion