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XP: Weirdest vendor meeting ever...sort of.

This is pretty much a double post.  I posted it on my local board, but I would like to know WWYD if you ran into this situation with a vendor.  TIA!
I had the craziest meeting with a potential baker for our wedding cake this morning.  Now, I'm not sure what to do.

So first off, I was dumb enough to schedule a cake tasting at 9:30 this morning.  I ended up going alone because my darling fiance went out and drank his face off last night and was in no condition to see the light of day, so I was kind of pissed to begin with.  But that's a whole different rant.  Anyhoo, so I get to the arranged meeting place, and wait.  And wait.  And then, 15 minutes after we're supposed to meet, I get a phone call from her.  She just woke up, and slept through her alarm and she's crying.  She told me she'd be there in 20 minutes with samples and I told her I'd just bring them home so we could try them later.  When she got there (20 minutes later, true to her word), she had a slight meltdown on me, crying and telling me about her super overloaded work/home/family schedule she's dealing with right now.  She handed me contract paperwork and told me that if we do agree to use her she'd give us 25% off our total bill.  I felt bad for her and ended up consoling her and telling her it was NBD, but it was weird.  Really weird.  

So...the cake samples were A-MAZING.  Every single review of her is awesome.  There are no complaints, and there are a number of knotties that have used her and gave her A+ reviews.  I'm just a little nervous now after this morning.  Plus, when I initially contacted her, she took almost a whole week to respond, which I found a little concerning.  Should I take this as a giant red flag and run, or just chalk it up to her having a really, really bad day and happily take advantage of my healthy discount?
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Re: XP: Weirdest vendor meeting ever...sort of.

  • edited December 2011
    With so many good reviews, I would consider it a bad day and take the discount. With that being said, make sure that when you schedule a time to meet her again to go over anything else that she is prompt and professional.
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  • Sue-n-KevinSue-n-Kevin member
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    edited December 2011
    ITA. I used vendor reviews for a lot of my vendors, it's a history of the vendor that is fairly rock solid.

    I'd also attribute it to a bad day. I would also tell her that you belong to the Knot and will make sure to post a review after your wedding.....................fair warning.
  • calibricancalibrican member
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    edited December 2011
    The discount is great incentive, and the fact that the samples were amazing. Make sure to get a chance to meet with her one more time and if she gets all teary-eyed on you again, probably run! :) But she'll probably do a great job. Good luck!
  • edited December 2011
    Make another meeting with her as a test, tell her you want to talk about the design or something. Then if she has another meltdown, you probably want to take the opportunity to run. Also if you do look elsewhere, show the discount to the next vender and say that you might go with X bakery to see if they will honor the discount too. I did that with my florist (since we won 150 voucher from someone different) and she honored it! Good luck!
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