Im having an outdoor rustic wedding. We're doing a buffet, and doing escort cards with assigned tables. Im still not sure if Im going to do catering or just homemade food. I need advise on what to do with the plates after people eat. I dont want to pay for a staff (this is a tight budget wedding). Is it tacky to have paper plates and have people trash them themselves? Id rather not cause I really liked the idea of having mismatched styled vintage plates...HELP !!