My parents are footing the bill for my wedding and I thought we were at least doing champain during dinner and toasts if not also doing the $9 a person drink deal with drinks during cocktail hour and soda, beer during dinner but I found out tonight my parents want a full cash bar because we are having a big buffette for the reception, we are not having hor dourves either during cocktail hour though either so I kind of feel bad for guests. what do ya'll think?