As a newly engaged teacher, during this time of year, the weekends are my only times to really plan for our wedding. Fortunately, we have decided on a July 2012 date so we have a good amount of time to find the perfect place. We are looking for something in the Hampton Roads area that would fit a beach themed wedding. We went to the Lesner Inn, but found out they had a $9000 food and beverage minimum! Shifting Sands, although on a base, has a $5000 minimun! As a teacher, and with this economy, this is completely out of our budget. I have been searching for venues that let you bring in your own catering/food, but haven't found anything worth booking yet.
In addition to finding a reception venue, we are in need of a ceremony venue as well so anything that could double as a ceremony and reception venue would be ideal. I have no problem getting married in a church, it just MUST have a center aisle and absolutely can NOT have red carpeting!! PLEASE HELP!!! Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated!!