I just got back from my tasting at my venue and they had all sorts of different set-ups for linens, lightings, etc. My FI are having a debate about a sweethearts table vs. having our bridal party sit with us (not lined up and facing out like a banquet table, but just sitting around a round table together) during dinner. So I'm wondering, for all you married ladies, what did you do and what were the pros/cons. And for those who are still planning their weddings, what are you thinking of doing. I'm pretty much paralyzed with indecision!!