I am having an 'intimate' destination wedding. Maybe 15 people. Music was my life growing up being a classical musician for 15+years. It really important to me that it done well, but I don't want guests to feel overwhelmed by having music everywhere. I was thinking a string quartet for the ceremony and a small band for cocktail hour and dinner. Does this make sense? Friends are saying just plug in the ipod, but I think thats not giving the right feel.Please help :-(