Are you doing toasts? How many? Are you asking people to toast specific people?
We are giving the opportunity for 6 toasts... My siblings, His Siblings, My parents, and both sets of his parents. And of course Us. But its weird to ask them to just get up and say nice stuff about us. Even tho I think its kind of assumed. But should someone be toasting the parents specifically?
I'm also still dealing with assumptions of my siblings weddings. "well we did this at your sister's wedding so why aren't you doing it." sort of thing.