Hello!
My fiance' and I are having a very untradional wedding. One of the main traditions we are breaking is by having girls on his side and a boy on mine, but most of the bridal party is made up of mutual friends. We have decided to have a joint bachlor/bachlorette party. Though the bridal party is friends with both of us, they are not close friends with each other. To make it easier my fiance' and I started to plan out the bachlor/bachlorette party so that everyone can be involved and have fun. We did ask everyone for ideas and suggestions. But all everyone wanted to do was go to the bars - not my thing and the MOH is underage. So we tried to come up with other ideas (like camping, bad 80's movies night, etc) but most of our bridal party was not excited about any of the other ideas.
So the question - Should I keep trying to come up with ideas that will include everyone or should I just let them plan it all? I also know it is untraditional for the bride to plan it all but it seemed easiest at the time.... Maybe I was wrong to assume that.