So my MOH kinda took the back burner to my bridal shower and some of my bridesmaids had to step up.. Which is fine this is the short version and now my bridal shower is next Saturday and half the people haven't responded yet... The invites were sent a little over a week ago, and some important people can't come because it was so last minute. I kinda feel like its going to be me in an empty room and I'm really angry about everything that has happened. I almost feel like we should just cancel the event because I'm scared the restaurant might tell us there aren't enough people to open for us. I don't know who to react to how at this point and I'm losing it a little. Just for a quick synopsis, there was no last name on my shower invite, and the responses are supposed o go to my MOH via phone, but she is leaving on vacation tomorrow for 4 days, so unless she calls me international I won't know who to call to get RSVPs from : and to make it better there has been little to no communication going on w my BP. Like my mom bought favors and I had dinner w my MOH tonight an she had no idea she was going w one of my BM next week to get them... Should I just cancel it and forget it? Or should I express my discontent w my MOH? Or just let it go and hope it works out?