Bachelorette party present for bride

abarlow12

I am a bridesmaid for my cousin's wedding and her bachelorette party is coming up soon. What should i get her? We are going bar hopping and I'm sure many of her friends are going to get her racy things, but I'm not comfortable getting her lingerie...any other ideas?

trix1223

I've never known anyone to give or get presents for their b-parties.  Neither my DD nor DIL received gifts at theirs, and none of my 2 DD's or SIL have ever given gifts at them either.

SuMmErKuTiE

Gifts definitely aren't required, but some people do bring them. I received some lingerie and some newlywed games and toys at my b-party, but not everyone brought something. Just a few of my BM's brought stuff.

If you're not comfortable getting the bride lingerie, but you still want to get her something, I would just get her a gift card to Victorias Secret or get her some bath stuff... bubble bath, salts, etc... HTH!

Kate61487

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_pre-wedding-parties_bachelorette-party-present-bride?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special Topic Wedding BoardsForum:32Discussion:56e00dd2-00d2-4b7d-9f7e-c040c3330526Post:73c7cf71-0967-4dfa-84ee-c36335d57c46">Re: Bachelorette party present for bride</a>:
[QUOTE]Gifts definitely aren't required, but some people do bring them. I received some lingerie and some newlywed games and toys at my b-party, but not everyone brought something. Just a few of my BM's brought stuff. If you're not comfortable getting the bride lingerie, but you still want to get her something, I would just get her a gift card to Victorias Secret or get her some bath stuff... bubble bath, salts, etc... HTH!
Posted by SuMmErKuTiE[/QUOTE]

This.  Or, depending on your plans for the evening, maybe a tiara or sash or something for the party itself?  My exSIL received penis shaped shot glasses and penis shaped straws (not sure if you're comfrotable with that, but it's less.. TMI? than lingerie to me).