After a recent issue of everyone assuming someone else was planning our shower, FI's mom got one planned last minute (only a few weeks before the wedding due to schedule issues). I'm just happy we're getting one
However, this makes me wonder if the same thing will happen for a bachelorette-type gettogether. All of my girl friends work and have families or school or some all three. I know the MOH is usually the one planning this, but this would be my sister who lives on the other side of the country with three kids and full time work and school. Honestly, all I want is her to be there for the big day, I wouldn't dream of putting more on her plate. So I'm wondering if it's bad form to start planning my own bachelorette party? The only time available would be the weekend before the wedding (closer than I'd like but no other option) and I'm kinda wanting to know if I should start putting down ideas to give the ladies I'd like to be there some heads up. I'm just thinking as far as what to go do, and working out sleeping arrangements as time goes by. I live three hours away from most of them and figured it'd be easier for me to go there than all of them driving here. What do you think?