My Maid of Honor said she was going to plan and throw my bridal shower, but she hasn't started planning besides setting the date for it, which is July 17th, and just left for Russia on a Mission trip and won't be back til July 12th, the week of the proposed shower. She hasn't gotten the addresses or guest names from me and hasn't sent any invites at all. What can be done about this? How do I confront her about this while she's in Russia?