Looking for opinions. So how many pre-wedding parties is too many? I'm a BM in a wedding next year. The couple just had their e-party a couple weekends ago. It was a big party with about 80 or so people. MOG is planning to throw the Jack and Jill (the wedding shower -- not the "fundraiser"). The bride's sister (who is also MOH) is disappointed that she is not throwing the shower. I'm a bit disappointed too as I['ve always thought this is traditionally the BMs duty. MOB says we could throw a second shower. It would be a bridal shower with close family and friends. How many gifts am I going to have to give this girl? Am I crazy for thinking an e-party and 2 showers is a bit much? I can understand having more than one shower when you have different groups throwing the shower like an office shower or something. But this second shower would be the same ladies who went to the jack and jill. I've already given the side-eye since the MOB told me at the e-party that not everyone there was necessarily invited to the wedding!