Okay, I need help here... I need to know if I am getting upset over nothing or if my feelings are valid. Long story short my FI's out of town cousin asked to invite her Mom to the bach. party which meant inviting my FMIL and FI's grandmother. So, this weekend I asked them if they would like to come, they then asked me what day it was taking place on I told them Friday before the wedding, we are getting married on Sunday. My FMIL said "Oh I can't go, that is the day of the family reunion" I am sorry, family reunion??? Then she acted as if I was crazy for not knowing that she planned a family reunion two days before our wedding. I looked at my FI he had no idea she planned this either. I couldn't believe it, I mean all of the out of town guests that are coming in for the WEDDING will be at the reception..... what is the purpose of the family reunion? Is it because she feels the need to be the center of attention and that will not be the case at our wedding? Not to mention my FI has to work on Friday and that night is his bach. party too, so how important is it for her own son to be there??? Am I totally turning into a bridezilla for being extremely upset about this?? How would you react?