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Bride responsibilities at Shower?

I have my first shower this weekend and another next month.  My dad's relatives are throwing this weekend's shower, and my fiance's family is throwin the one next month.  What I'm wondering is, as the bride, do I have to do/prepare or bring anything with me to the shower, besides a hostess gift?  The invites already stated where we're registered, and I've talked to the hostesses about menus, etc. (told them they could do whatever they wanted or whatever was easiest for them).  I just am afraid of showing up and forgetting something essential!  Any thoughts or advice?

Re: Bride responsibilities at Shower?

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    AdeleDazeemAdeleDazeem member
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    edited December 2011
    Nah - you just need to show up with a good mood.  A hostess gift is a lovely thought, as well.

    You are going to spend the day being talked to and opening gifts.  Just smile and be gracious about everything!
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    trix1223trix1223 member
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    edited December 2011
    Smile, squeal with delight as you open each gift, and say "thank you" a lot.  That's about it.  Enjoy your shower.
    "Trix, it's what they/our parents wanted. Why so judgemental? And why is your wedding date over a year and a half ago? And why do you not have a groom's name? And why have you posted over 12,000 posts? And why do you always say mean things to brides?" palegirl146
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    SuMmErKuTiESuMmErKuTiE member
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    edited December 2011
    Ditto pp's your job is to show up and smile and greet everyone and thank them for coming. Relax and enjoy your shower, it goes by fast! Hostess gifts are a great idea, just a little something to show them that you really appreciate everything they did to make your shower wonderful for you.
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    csupallacsupalla member
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    edited December 2011
    Awesome, I think I can handle all of that! :)  Thanks for the input!!
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