I have my first shower this weekend and another next month. My dad's relatives are throwing this weekend's shower, and my fiance's family is throwin the one next month. What I'm wondering is, as the bride, do I have to do/prepare or bring anything with me to the shower, besides a hostess gift? The invites already stated where we're registered, and I've talked to the hostesses about menus, etc. (told them they could do whatever they wanted or whatever was easiest for them). I just am afraid of showing up and forgetting something essential! Any thoughts or advice?