Pre-wedding Parties

Why is Bachelor party the norm? *Rant*

I don't know how many times I have heard people asking what FI is doing for his bachelor party and then practically in the same breath, saying they can't believe I'm having a bachelorette party and how it's degrading to women. Neither of us are having strippers and out Bestman/MOH know how we feel about it.

I mean most people saying this are a little older, but its not fair that everyone expects the guy to have a party while expecting the ladies to sit home knitting every night! (I crochet btw lol)

I know that's not everyone, but what should I say to these people that are so rude?
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Re: Why is Bachelor party the norm? *Rant*

  • banana468banana468 member
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    edited December 2011

    "Could you clarify what you mean by degrading to women?  I'm so confused about how I'm supposed to feel bad about drinks with my friends."

  • smartlyprettysmartlypretty member
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    edited December 2011
    I've never heard of anything calling bachlorette parties "degrading"??? How could they possibly be considered degrading? You just go out and drink with your friends. I could see someone calling people that go out for them sluts, drunks, party girls, etc (which is also ridiculous) but at least that makes sense.
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  • smartlyprettysmartlypretty member
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    Or do you mean degrading to the strippers? Meh, it's a job. 
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  • edited December 2011
    I have no idea. These people are insane. Maybe it's because you wear the pink sash that says bachelorette on it. I have no idea what the issue is. Like I said I just wanted to vent.
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  • smartlyprettysmartlypretty member
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    edited December 2011
    Haha no I think you are right. They are just nuts. It seems like whenever anyone brings up my wedding they have all these crazy ideas to go with it.
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