I don't know how many times I have heard people asking what FI is doing for his bachelor party and then practically in the same breath, saying they can't believe I'm having a bachelorette party and how it's degrading to women. Neither of us are having strippers and out Bestman/MOH know how we feel about it.
I mean most people saying this are a little older, but its not fair that everyone expects the guy to have a party while expecting the ladies to sit home knitting every night! (I crochet btw lol)
I know that's not everyone, but what should I say to these people that are so rude?