I want soooo bad to go to Whistler (about 4 hours from us in Seattle), and I told everyone 3 months ago to get the weekend off to go, and now they are all bailing because they don't want to go "that far". I think that is ridiculous.
The BM's should ask the bride what she thinks the bach party means to her and then choose. I want an adventure. I used to voluntarily live in my car to drive from ski resort to ski resort and live in the parking lot of my favorite mountain or in a tent. I was ALWAYS on an adventure, but after getting pregnant 4 years ago, I haven't had an adventure since. I just want one last adventure like we used to have before I get married, but the girls don't seem to care what I want. They want to go to the family cabin we visit every weekend. Not and adventure to me. I'm trying to find something else in the Seattle area, but it's all stuff we could do any night of the week.... I'm getting pretty bummed out, and wondering how I ever got in charge of making this plan anyway. They asked where I wanted to go and what weekend 3 months ago. I told them. I have been calm and patient with 5 bridesmaids who don't return phone calls, can't make time just to have lunch, and decided to move to Hawaii and miss all pre-wedding functions on a whim.... I'm about to whip out the bridezilla on these ladies!!