Bachelorette and Shower invites

ncowanbirch

I am helping my MOH with the guest list for my bachelorette and friend bridal shower. Right now I have some girls on the list that were my FI's friends first (and are included in his portion of the wedding guest list) but I have become close to them too. I occasionally go out with them without my FI. Should I keep them on the list even if we aren't incredibly close?

JaxInBlue

I'd say maybe invite them to the bachelorette but not the shower.  I've always seen the shower as an opportunity to celebrate with your nearest and dearest.  If your bachelorette is a local night on the town type of deal, or something that wouldn't require these ladies to pay a tremendous amount, I might invite them.  If it's not (ie: you're jetting off someplace or going to a high end spa) I wouldn't worry about taking them off the list. 

nataleelee

Thanks so much! This helps a lot.