My matron of honor and another of my close friends are throwing the Future hubby and I a couples shower. My Aunt wants to throw me a bridal shower. I dont feel its right to invite guests to both showers, who should be invited to each shower? should i just tell the ladies invited to the bridal shower that its not necessary to get another gift for the couples shower? or not inviet them to the couples shower? but i dont want them to feel excluded or left out either