I live in CA, and all my family lives in AZ. I am not having a bridal party.. I know that typically you should never really be involved with your own shower--but what about my situation? Honestly, I would prefer to not be involved, but at the same time I don't feel comfortable asking any girlfriends of mine (who aren't actually IN my wedding) to throw me a shower.
My sister and mom will probably throw me something in AZ with family, but what about everyone in my life out here? In my situation, would it be better just to plan my own shower than risk not having one or dumping it on someone else's lap?