About a month ago I moved states to where my fiance lives, and where the wedding is taking place. Our wedding is in less than 4 months, but I know very few people in the area. All of my bridesmaids are out of state and likely won't be able to make it out much before the wedding (maybe 2-3 days at best). I think it is alot of unecessary pressure to have to plan my own bridal shower, bachelorette party, and/or make lots of new bff's in a few months. On top of it all, my bridesmaids are not wanting to be very involved and showing no interest in planning these occassions.Suggestions? Help please!