My future-sister-in-law is my MOH. I kind of wanted to have a lingerie shower, because, well, my expertise in that area is nonexistant. I've been hesitant about bringing it up just because I can understand how awkward that would be if my brother's fiancee asked me to throw her a shower like that. i'm sure we'd all like to avoid that predicament.......so, can I ask someone else to take the lead on that, or do I just bite the bullet and ask her to throw me one?