We are having a small destination wedding (50-75 people) at Walt Disney World and then having an at-home reception. I am not expecting people who attend the DW to get us a gift (their presence is enough for us), but because I will be having a shower or two as well as an at-home reception, I was thinking of doing a small registry.
I know some people think it is rude to register when you are just having an at-home reception, but a lot of the people I am inviting to that are used to it. I grew up as a Mormon and, traditionally, Mormons have a private ceremony in a temple and then have a separate reception where they can invite anyone and the couple registers. My only issue is that my fiance and his family are not Mormon and I'm worried that his parents might think it is rude to (1) have an at-home reception and (2) to register for gifts. They are very opinionated people!
So my question is, knowing all of this information, should I still do a small registry?