Ok so by the time I have my Bridal Shower, I would have been living with the Fiance for 2 years. We have EVERYTHING new aside from plates and silverware, and to be honest, we really do not need anything! I feel like it would be a waste to register for things that we do not need. What we REALLY need is money towards a house that we will be looking for a year or two after the wedding (We currently live in an apt).. how can we let everyone know that the main way to really help us start off our new life together is to help fund a down payment on a house!