So you know the story, we're getting married far from where we live and it'll be tough to transport actual gifts, yadda yadda yadda.
Now I'm not stupid enough to even consider mentioning gifts on the invites or anywhere else, hehe.
However - firstly, I can't decide if I should register somewhere or not. We don't really *need* anything, although I could definitely come up with some things I'd *like* (like matching towel sets, for example - we have towels, but nothing matches) but I feel like it'd be weird anyway.
Obviously, we would prefer cash. And I realize there's no way to specifically mention that to all invited or anything, and I'm not having a shower or anything, no gift-grubbing intended, I couldn't care less if people don't get us a gift, but I know my family, and I know that several of them will want to give us *something*. Anyway, my question is: Is it okay, if my mom gets a call and is asked "Where are they registered?" for her to explain that we'd prefer cash (instead of providing information on a registry)? Or is it absolutely 100% NEVER okay to mention the dirty "c" word?
Please note I'm not saying to have her call them and tell them I want cash, or anything else like that. But IF THEY CALL HER and ask about it, should she be honest and tell them? Or should I register just so she can tell them a place when they call and avoid the word cash altogether?
Thanks