More of a vent than a question about registering etc...but relating to showers so that's why I've put it on this board.
My man of honor offered to throw me a shower and I declined. My mother wanted to throw me a shower and I declined. My FMIL is, however, INSISTING on throwing me a shower (I tried to decline and she would not take "no" for an answer).
I find showers to be incredibly awkward and I hate the idea of people gathering just to watch someone open gifts.
I would fight her on the shower issue, but this is not a battle I feel is really worth fighting if it will make her THAT happy. I'm going to make FI participate as well so it will be a little less awkward and I am trying to view it more as an opportunity for our families to get to know one another before the wedding.
Questions for you: Are you having a shower? Did you want a shower? What are some fun activities that have or will happen at your shower? Who did you put on your guest list to attend the shower?
I seriously hadn't thought of any of this stuff because I really didn't think I would be having a shower...