I am a BM in a wedding and my boyfriend is a GM in the wedding too. We are really confused on what to do about gifts. Do we get our friends a combined gift for the shower AND then another gift together for the wedding? In addition to buying a dress/tux, shoes, jewelry, hair done, bachelorette/bachelor parties? We are just confused if we are supposed to buy a gift for the shower and then give money again for the wedding? And how much $ is right to give as a BM/GM couple? Plllease help! Thanks!!