Quick question -- We really don't want to register for anything since we do have pretty much everything we need save for a few boutique things we'd both love to have (but we are planning to buy on our own when the rainy day funds spill over)...
I feel somewhat uncomfortable saying "buy me this".
Since most people are flying in from out of town for the wedding, I want to keep their expenses to a minmimum since I know airfare and hotels will not be cheap.
Is it tacky to let people know that we are not registered, but if anyone feels inclined to give us a gift, they have the liberty to decide that or -- to do a charitable donation to St. Jude's Hospital or some other worthy organization?