So my future hubby and I are both hippies and actually met at a 4/20 celebration. I am originally from new york and have this classic new york vibe. He's from the pacific northwest and totally has that hippy eugene kid vibe to him. This is my second marriage my last one was an elopement and the marriage lasted one week. This is his third marriage. So we're having a new york/fairfield county wedding, I really want a vintage theme but he really doesn't want a formal wedding and kind of wants a wedding that not only celebrates our love but has a hippie 4/20 vibe to it help. My parents will help pay for our wedding if we do a traditional wedding and without my parents help I don't see us affording our regular bills, a 3,000 mile move, plus a wedding in new york.