We spoke with our pastor for the first time today and we would like to have a "family medallion ceremony." Basically something that will include my son and us becoming a family in the ceremony. The pastor likes the idea but had no suggestions.... this is where I am hoping someone on the Knot would be able to help me. We are thinking that a good time for this would be during the unity candle lighting. Does anyone have any suggestions or has anyone included anything in their own weddings?