Hello, I'm new here, however, I'm not new to getting married. This will be my second marriage, in fact, but it'll be his first. Our wedding is scheduled for next summer. I'm posting this because my fiance has expressed to me a couple times that he doesn't want to do anything in our wedding that my ex did when I got married to him (the garter toss, for example). It's getting really frustrating because there are even wedding photo poses that he has vetoed. I don't want to ignore his concerns, but I also think he's being a bit unreasonable. Especially since (and I know you gals hate hearing this being said) my wedding to my ex didn't even feel "real". It was hasty, our families weren't there (besides my mom), and I didn't even wear a wedding dress. Now, anyone who knows me knows that is so not me to do something like that, but I was 19 and the man I was seeing was leaving soon and we wanted it to be "official".Anyway, we're planning a big wedding, both our families will be there, and I don't want to deprive them of seeing their son on what is supposed to be the happiest day of his life. I feel guilty telling him the things I did in my last wedding for fear that he's going to say no to doing them at our wedding next year.Is there any hope for me to make this feel special to him? I feel like I'm paying for having been married before.
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