My fiancee and I have recently gotten engaged and I am a little overwhelmed with the wedding planning. This will be my second marriage- the first time I got married when I was 20 and it only lasted about a year. I am really nervous about planning a 2nd wedding and am feeling a little stupid. Should I invite some of the same people that were at the first wedding? Or do I just snub them? Will it look stupid if I have a big wedding?