I am so done with this whole idea of having a wedding the way that I had wanted it to be. By that I don't mean I don't want to get married I just don't want to invite anyone other than my daughter, her man and my grand baby and my sons, and FI's daughter.
So I told my FI forget inviting people has their is no one that is that involved in our lives has a couple.
So what finally brought me to that was my FI called me this morning and asked me if I wanted to leave him? I said no where did you get that idea from. He said he ran into my (so called friend who is also my BM) and she said so did Jeanni leave you yet. He also said their was a couple of other neighbors who have said the same thing. I have never even said anything remotely close to that to my BM and I have never talked to these other neighbors about anything about our relationship. So I know where that came from and that was from my BM. I am so furious that she would even start some bull s*** like that.
So I told my FI that lets just do this thing without anyone but our kids. He said it worked for him. I think that I will go with the idea of doing a destination wedding and a honeymoon. What do you all think?