So as I work on planning my offbeat yet heartfelt second wedding, I keep forgetting that this is my fiance's first wedding and that he wants all the classic traditions! My first wedding was a traditional Catholic wedding and this time I refuse to have a Catholic wedding! I want something Fun and Unique! We have managed to agree on a Zombis themed wedding invite, and a black white and Zombie cake! No our lives do not have a Zombie Theme, but our blended family of 5 kids do play Zombie games LOL. To get back on topic, how do I deal with him wanting very traditional wedding features when I don't see the point in them, and in a way very them as very bad luck? I want to make sure he has a great wedding experience! Hey I did cave and agree to looking a wedding dresses and will be buying one very soon. Has anyone else dealt with the second ? first wedding issue?