We are getting married at a church and I am not sure if we are supposed to invite our officiant to the luncheon we are having after. It's not a "reception" since we're not having a dj or dancing, just a luncheon for roughly 55 or so family and close friends. Do we invite our pastor to say grace or not? She is a new pastor to the church and we just met her two months ago. Any suggestions will help. Thanks!!!